Self-development

Here we will focus on topics of the month for self-development to assisting with aligning to your greatest potential focusing on goals for self-development and discovery. Building on awareness, abilities, talents, skills to improve our physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual connections. To learn to overcome obstacles and challenges here on earth school.

Having an attitude of acceptance builds awareness. You are who you are! Accept who you are! Be compassionate, give yourself grace and forgiveness to accept the good and the bad and everything in between.

Ways to develop on your acceptance

Don’t fight with yourself, develop a friendly relationship physically listening to your physical/emotional/spiritual/mental needs.

Develop a more positive mindset, don’t self-sabotage or let your thoughts create unhealthy patterns in your life.

Emotionally sit with your emotions as they will teach you beyond the surface level of what is going on and use these emotions to evolve, transmute and honor your sensitivities. As our emotions are the teachers. Yet not letting them rule or create your reality.

Be aware of your fears as these can create pain (pattern behaviors), insecurities, and triggers. As these behaviors can create resistance and once, we acknowledge our fears we can define them. Learn where we can change, improve and adapt. Instead of seeing traits and situations as a negative characteristic, view them as a positive exercise to recognize and develop more confidence and strength in these areas.

Invite your higher self to connect help you with self-acceptance know you are enough.

Start seeing the strength in your flaws or situations handed to you. As this will build on perseverance and knowing you can overcome.

My husband uses the motto “It is what it is.” We do not always have the ability to change the circumstances and take them at face value to recognizing, releasing resistance or denial. The real transformation happens once we surrender to the idea that things
are what they are.

Know when to surrender by letting go of the Ego as it will demand control. Learning to embrace what truly resonates.

Our acceptance has its own capacity to receive.

Journaling Prompt

Do you accept or are you rejecting/resisting certain parts or areas of your life and self?

Do you have healthy boundaries?

What may need to be dissected more in my life?

Are you in a state of receiving? (love, support, etc.)

Are you receptive of what you are receiving as well as feel you are deserving of this?

Affirmations for acceptance

I don’t chase. I attract.

I am enough just as I am.

I accept myself unconditionally.

My potential to succeed is limitless.

I trust my decisions.

I give myself permission to heal

What is meant for me will never pass me.

I am deserving of love and deserve to be loved.

I accept who I am and align with my intuition.

I am the creator of my own reality.

July is the month represented by the King of Clubs

Leadership/Master with authority, wisdom and intellectual power.

Can sometimes refer to a mentor or leader who influences others with power. This is a period of time where our decisions and influences are being empowered to take risks. Stand in your power and set forth with determination and be that passionate leader by leading by example. Being mindful of selfish/ego or domineering or aggressive behaviors. Defined confidence, this card represents moving forward with trusting yourself. Listen to your intuition and observe. Don’t settle for less than what you deserve. Be assertive and make your feelings known by expressing them with honesty and heart space. The king of clubs accesses universal resources with knowledge. Information flows and it’s sharing the brilliance of your mind and your unique perspective. The king of clubs is the master communicator.